Bethinks

Jul 16, 2008

Don't trip on your power...









I remember reading Dilbert since I was a kid, but I never really "got it" until I worked in an office. And now that I've worked in several offices, it's amazing how true to life these satirical strips are!

This particular one made me ponder the world for a moment. Our priorities really are this twisted, where business is king and kindness is a vagabond. I've been in dozens of situations where someone in charge (usually a "Power Bitch" who seems to be constantly PMSing...you know the type...) strictly makes their judgements by thinking of what's best for the company. Never even considering that they could make a difference in someone's world AND create a more dedicated understudy, just by giving an ounce of compassion.

I recall one time in particular that still raises my blood pressure when I think about it. I had been in Texas for about a month and was working at a Wells Fargo Motorbank. Valentine's Day is my favorite holiday, so I requested to have that day off about 3.5 weeks in advance. Well, when I picked up my schedule for that week, I noticed that they scheduled me to work a full day on VDay! I went to my PB Manager and asked her about it and she just brushed me off by saying "oh, I couldn't find anyone to fill in for you". That was the beginning of the end for me. I gave my 2 weeks notice shortly thereafter. I will never work for someone that inconsiderate again. She was single, overweight, and unhappy. So I'm sure she got some sort of cheap thrill from her power trip.

Though some successful people might call this foolish, I would encourage you (& myself) to base every decision on morality and integrity. Always think about how you would feel if you were in the other person's place. Be the change.

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3 Comments:

  • At July 16, 2008 at 10:57 AM , Blogger Carl Miner said...

    That was one of the best blogs I've ever read. Seriously. It baffles me that so many people seem so aware of the problem, yet change is never made. There's a comic strip dedicated to it for monkey's sake! I guess it comes down to self awareness.


    Monkey Count: 1

     
  • At July 17, 2008 at 7:37 AM , Blogger Gena said...

    Hey Beth. I love your new website. Just thought I would say hi...thanks for e mailing me back a few weeks ago!

     
  • At July 18, 2008 at 11:09 PM , Blogger rk said...

    I agree with your hubby that this is a great post. In addition to being spot-on, it also features several great potential titles for your next CD:

    "Motorbank"
    "Power Bitch"
    "Always PMSing"
    "Dedicated Understudy"
    "Kindness is a Vagabond"
    and my favorite:
    "Single, Overweight, and Unhappy"

    You're welcome.

     

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